Have Young Adult Books Become Too Sexualized?

Literature for teens is flooded with sexual content that would be intense at any age. As a result, books are being banned all over the country.

Is a book rating system the answer?
Opinion Piece By Young Adult Author Lorie Langdon

In the 2023–2024 school year alone, there were over 10,000 recorded instances of book bans across more than 4,000 unique titles, according to PEN America. Libraries and schools are getting more requests from parents to remove books with explicit sexual content that are targeted to teens and tweens. This raises a compelling question; are adult authors writing porn for minors?

Young Adult Literature is No Longer for Children

The young adult genre has grown by leaps and bounds since the days of Nancy Drew, Sweet Valley High, and The Outsiders.

Around 2006, the Twilight Series and Hunger Games ushered in a new genre of fiction. Young Adult books exploded onto the literary scene and earned their own section of bookstore and library shelves. Readers of all ages enjoyed these coming-of-age stories that were well-crafted, imaginative, and easier reads than many adult fiction options, yet contained more sophisticated plots and complex characterization than children’s books. Soon, fan-fiction online began to sexualize these young adult characters, spawning such mega best-sellers as Fifty Shades of Grey.

In the past decade, the books marketed to teens and tweens have crossed into adult territory, becoming increasingly mature in nature. Many of these novels contain step-by-step intimacy between heterosexual and homosexual couples, as well as extolling multiple partners at the same time.

At the time of writing this article the #4 New York Times best-selling young adult book, Bitten, contains descriptive depictions of a ‘threesome,’ erotic asphyxiation, and sexual violence. One of the biggest selling series of recent years, Haunting Adeline and Hunting Adeline, according to BooksRun.com includes detailed depictions of human trafficking, child abuse, stalking, and scenes of ‘romanticized’ rape that leads to the victim falling in love with her rapist, the man who physically and mentally abuses her. It is not enough for the author to say on Amazon, “Please visit my website for content warnings.”

Children are being exposed to these X-rated themes on bookstore shelves that are supposed to nurture their imaginations and protect their innocence. The damage has already been done by the time the parents realize what their children have read.

When the Problem Hits Too Close to Home

This October, my literary agent attended the Frankfurt Book Festival—one of the largest gatherings of publishing professionals in the world—and was told by every editor that they only want books with sexual content for their young adult imprints. These editors were from the U.S., as well as Europe.

When my first book, DOON, was released in 2013, I had a nine-year-old girl who devoured the series and attended my book events in multiple states. Many children with advanced reading levels are encouraged to read above their grade level. Which brings up the concern that has remained unaddressed in publishing; should adult authors who are pushing the envelope in order to get book sales be the ones to introduce sex to a nine-year-old?

In 2025, Closed Door Romance conducted a survey of 56K romance readers and discovered that 68% first encountered sexually explicit reading material between the ages of 11-17, with 15% saying they were under 11 years of age. Many said this early exposure shaped how they saw love, intimacy, and themselves.

Due to this trend, many readers, teachers, and parents are turning to small, independent publishers like Quill & Flame who only publish ‘Books that Bring Light’ without sex on the page. Bookstores and libraries do not carry books from small publishers though, so this greatly decreases their distribution.

Moreover, at what point should publishers be held accountable for putting damaging material in our children’s hands? At the very least, if they cannot be made to stop exposing minors to X-rated adult content (a punishable offense in every other circle of our society), they can institute a rating system.

A Viable Solution

Media such as TV, movies, video games, and even music have content ratings or warnings which guide consumers and allow them to make informed decisions regarding their consumption. We have ‘parental controls’ on our tv streaming apps, smart phones, tablets, and Wi-fi systems. Why not books?

I, for one, would love a ratings sticker or a content warning page inside every book, not only for myself, but because adult books with fairytale tie-ins draw children in as well.

Industry Standards Need to Change

The ‘burning’ of objectionable books has happened for centuries. It’s time we do something different—a more sustainable solution that allows room for artistic freedom while protecting young readers and informing consumers. Let’s call for publishers to take responsibility for the content they print by instituting a standardized book rating system that is clearly displayed on every book cover.

We need to protect age-appropriate spaces for our children and teens to explore literature. It’s time for us to take a stand, and for publishing as a whole to do better.

NOTE: Lorie is planning a petition on a state level starting with libraries and parents. If you would like to join her or have expertise in this area, she would like to talk with you. Please email us to get in contact with her at thespinningpen@gmail.com

To hear Lorie Langdon talk more on this subject click here. She is open for questions via her DM’s on Instagram.

Stay tuned for our next article on Recommended Reading Lists for Teens, Young Adults and Families!

The Perfect Winter Reading List

“You can never get a cup of tea large enough or a book long enough to suit me.” –CS Lewis

At the Spinning Pen, sitting next to a fireplace, a warm drink in hand, a cozy blanket and a stack of books is pretty much our ideal world. Add winter and twinkling lights, and it’s perfection.

That said, we have put together the perfect winter reading list for you, all of which would make ideal gifts and longterm shelf candy. Enjoy!

THE PERFECT WINTER READING LIST:

    1. Souls as Cold as Frost — for those craving a Narnia type adventure with depth, courage and battles.
    2. Iron Rose — for those craving a unique Beauty and the Beast meets Hunger Games type story. You’ll find a wintery castle, deep healing, powerful connection, and a kingdom to save.
    3. Winter Maiden – for those craving epic battles
    4. Activated – for those craving epic adventure, northern lights, deep truths, and high stakes. “Teen genius and her band of prodigies team up with unlikely allies to stop a catastrophic satellite breakdown. Global chaos is at stake and so is the boy she loves. (Note: Activated is book 3 in the Calculated series – series in process to be a feature film!)
    5. The Gifting – for those craving a supernatural thriller, on the edge of your seat mystery, and a beautifully done connection/soulmate trope romance.
    6. Once Upon a Christmas Past – for those craving a swoony, whimsical new classic in the vein of A Christmas Carol.
    7. Mammoth – for those craving a GOONIE, Indiana Jones teen adventure!
    8. Suspended in the Stars– for those craving fandoms like Skyward and The Lunar ChroniclesThe Greatest Showman or Star Wars in a fast-paced and swoony, no spice YA Science Fantasy space adventure. “A GIRL IN HIDING. A BOY ON THE RUN. THE FATE OF THE GALAXY BETWEEN THEM.”
    9. The Winter King – for those craving a mystery and a village trapped in winter, a tyrannical god, and a girl who will do anything to keep her family alive….
    10. Girl Next Door (All I Want for Christmas series book 1) – Wish Upon a Star meets Its a wonderful life -A boy finds himself caught between a decade-long love for the girl next door and the realization that some wishes are better left unfulfilled.
    11. Christmas on the Goblin Express – for those craving adventure and new perspective — “For Claire Samson, the only way to survive Christmas this year is to escape it.”
    12. Ballad of Never After – for those craving a winter chase, the jaw-dropping sequel to the ONCE UPON A BROKEN HEART, starring Evangeline Fox and the Prince of Hearts on a new journey of magic, mystery, and heartbreak…

    Have a NEW YEAR book suggestion we want to feature? EMAIL US!

    NOTE: all of these books are no spice and appropriate for 13+

    Stay Warm and Enjoy your Winter Reading!

    THE SPINNING PEN TEAM

    Interview with YA Romantasy Author Melissa Poett

    SP: Hi Melissa, we are so excited to interview you! First congratulations on your debut novel! We have read it and are OBSESSED!!!! Few authors go to auction with publishers on their first book but after reading it, we know why!

    So, to begin — can you start by telling us how did you first realized you wanted to write a story and become a published author? 

      MP: I got into writing in a pretty typical way—it started as just a hobby. But the more I figured it out, the more I fell in love with it. Eventually, I started to believe I actually had something worth reading, so I decided to take a shot at traditional publishing. But yeah, it definitely wasn’t an overnight thing. We’re talking a process that took years and years.

      SP: How long did it take you to write The Enemy’s Daughter

        MP: I would say about a year to shape it into something I felt comfortable querying to literary agents. Then once it was picked up by my publishers, we went through edits again.

        SP: Other than The Enemy’s Daughter being a “Tristan and Isolde reimagining,” is there anything else you drew inspiration from while writing your story, like a film, novel, or song?

          MP: Yeah, I absolutely loved the Tristan and Isolde movie with James Franco and Sophia Myles (watch it if you haven’t seen it!), and I can confidently say it sparked in me a deep-seated affection for the legends from the 12th century. 

          SP: Are there any themes or messages within the story that mean something to you?

            MP: Yes. But the tricky part is that most of the themes in The Enemy’s Daughter stem from spoilers or plot twists—and I’m pretty sure people would come for me if I gave those away here. What I can say is that in writing this book, I was processing a lot of my frustrations with real-world events, which led to some tough questions about war, freedom, and what truly makes a great leader.

            SP: What would you like readers to know about you and your upcoming novel? 

              MP: Readers can expect enemies-to-lovers and forbidden love woven into a dystopian world with magic. But within that, it’s also a story about two young people on opposite sides of a war who mess around with a love potion of sorts. So there’s an instant push and pull that’s heavy on the romance as they’re drawn together. But ultimately, they’ll have to choose whether to give in to their bond, or betray the other to save their own people. And if that’s your thing, then you’re my people and THE ENEMY’S DAUGHTER is likely for you!

              SP: What do you hope readers will take away from the book?

                MP: The story is the embodiment of my favorite tropes, so I hope to make you swoon, gasp, and cackle with laughter (for those of you who know, I’m talking about the tie-him-to-the-tree scene ;). But most of all, I hope to open people’s eyes to the insidious ways that we lose our power and freedom as a society.

                SP: Now that you’re officially a published author, what advice would you give aspiring writers?

                   MP: Oh gosh, there are so many things. But here are three:

                  1. Always back up your manuscript.
                  2. Check your junk mail regularly when you’re querying. No, seriously—go do it right now.
                  3. Build your writing community. Writing doesn’t have to be lonely. Make friends. Critique each other’s work. It’ll make both of you better writers.

                  SP: What authors do you love and draw inspiration from?

                    MP: Tahereh Mafi and Sabaa Tahir are two of my favs. Tahereh blew my mind when I read her for the first time because of how deeply she emersed me in the story. That was a class, and I ate it up! Sabaa is the queen of giving you a heart attack as you read. No character is safe. No plot twist too big. I aspire to live up to those standards. 

                    SP: What do you do when writers block strikes or when it’s hard to find inspiration? 

                      MP: I think reading is an excellent option for writer’s block. But when I just don’t know what to write for a scene, listening to music or taking a nap has been surprisingly effective. Sometimes doing both at the same time. Never underestimate your subconscious and its power to solve a lot of your problems if you just give it the space and environment to work it out for you. 

                      SP: Are you currently working on any other exciting projects? 

                        MP: Yes! I’m working on book two. I can’t say a whole lot about it yet, but I can say it will be in the same world with the same magic system!

                        SP: So where are you hanging out these days where we can find you?

                        MP: You can find me via my website or IG!
                        Insta: https://www.instagram.com/melissawritesya/ & Website: www.melissapoett.com

                        SP: Thanks Melissa for being here with us! For readers, we posted the official synopsis below with an amazon link (although we suggest going to a local bookstore!)

                        OFFICIAL BLURB:

                        A stunning reimagining of Tristan and Isolde set in a dystopian world woven with magic. An addictive debut YA enemies-to-lovers romantasyperfect for fans of Rebecca Ross and Sarah Underwood as well as books like Curious TidesThe Hurricane Wars, and Belladonna.

                        It’s been thirty-seven years since the Republic was destroyed. Now two settlements—the five clans and the Kingsland—fight for control of the untainted land. Though the five clans are outnumbered, they’ve finally struck, killing Kingsland’s brutal leader.

                        In the war that follows, Isadora, an eighteen-year-old healer, risks her life to help injured soldiers. But when she stops an attack from Tristan, a Kingsland assassin, his soldiers shoot her with a poisoned arrow. As Isadora lies dying, Tristan does the unimaginable: He offers to save her life using a rare magic. 

                        In choosing to live, Isadora is unknowingly bound to the mysterious Tristan. Worse, even acknowledging the attraction between them allows him to glean fragments of her memories and the very knowledge he needs to destroy the five clans. But their magical connection works both ways. So to save her people, Isadora will have to open her heart to her most cunning enemy. Because in a race for ultimate survival, she’ll need to destroy Tristan and his people first.

                        BUY HERE: https://a.co/d/6MpKsnd

                        Love and Books ~

                        Author Interview: Rebecca Alexandru

                        Hey Readers and Writers! It’s time for a lovely debut indie author interview to kick off our month of December! Her book just released and she was even interviewed on TV! We’d loved her premise, and we think you will too…check it out!

                        SP: Hi Rebecca! We’re so excited to have you here on the Spinning Pen! Tell us all a little bit about you and your writing journey.

                        RA: Thank you! I have been writing for over a decade now and love multiple genres. I have projects I’m working on varying from kids’ picture books, MG scifi, YA fantasy, and adult dystopian novels. And if that isn’t enough, I love to change it up by writing screenplays. My favorite part of any book is the character growth. I think that’s what draws me to stories in the first place. 

                        SP: Ok now for the bookish part we’ve been waiting for…tell us about 12 Days to Christmas! How did the idea come to you? Favorite parts of writing it? 

                        RA: In 12 Days to Christmas, holiday festivities and the history of Dec 25 come together in a sweet romance filled with heart. Mira, while grieving the loss of her mother, leads her small town’s Christmas festival, linking each community event with something that happened in history on Dec 24-25. She doesn’t expect a widower and his three sons to help her heal and find the joy and magic of the season.

                        12 Days to Christmas is different from any of my previous works because it’s a contemporary sweet romance! I love it though because it ties in so many elements, from dealing with grief during the holidays, to intriguing historical facts, and an eclectic mix of antique and vintage finds. 

                        I can’t remember exactly how the idea came to me but it was probably while I was watching Hallmark Christmas movies and wondering if I could branch my writing into another genre.

                        SP: Since you write YA as well, how did you decide to debut with an adult romance? 

                        RA: This story is ready to be told! 12 Days to Christmas has been whispering to my heart for a while that I need to share it with others. Every step of its publication journey has solidified that belief…it’s no longer my story but it belongs to those who read it and connect with its message. 

                        SP: How did you decide to self publish? What are some of the dream goals you’d like to reach? 

                        RA: Choosing to self-publish took me a long time to accept because I believed a lot of the lies, wanted validation, and was literally terrified of marketing, haha. BUT when I finally took the plunge…it was FREEING! I get to choose the title, the cover, the release date, where & when I sell it. Having full creative control is liberating and I am really loving the process! To break down one of the lies of self-publishing: “not edited well” – I edited 12 Days to Christmas with a fine tooth comb and perfected everything I could. There might still be a little wiggle room for human error – but that’s just to prove I’m not AI. As for validation, my early readers have enjoyed it! Although it hasn’t been released yet, I’ve already had reviews like “This book was written for me” and that means more than a corporation stamping their approval. I write for real people, not mega-businesses seeking profits. As for marketing…I’ll answer that in the next question…

                        One important step in encouraging me that I could self-publish successfully was watching two of my writing group buddies do amazing with their own books! So this is a special shout out to Callie McLay and her book What If We Met in A Bookstore, because her guidance made my dream become a reality! I’m also thankful for Nova McBee, Candace Kade, and M.T. Solomon for their support! If you haven’t read their books yet – go read them! Having friends who are writers has been pivotal in encouragement, pursuing publication, and ultimately being able to share 12 Days to Christmas with you! 

                        SP: What’s one or two craft techniques or marketing tips you would recommend to other writers? (We LOVE your reels by the way!)

                        RA: Marketing has been a learning curve but it’s becoming fun! (Although I can’t wait til January when I can just hibernate the entire month, lol). 

                        I knew the 12 historical events in 12 Days to Christmas needed Reels to explain the history in the book. Those, paired with the fun I’m having on Canva, has been a creative outlet that I enjoy sharing with others. 

                        Little tidbits: Many times my cameraman is one of my sons. My 11yo son edited my first reel! They also helped inspire some of the characters in the book.

                        The main marketing tip I’ve learned from other writers and have tried to practice myself is: Have fun! I keep it interesting by changing up my outfits or decorating for Christmas in September. And on the days it’s difficult, I’ve learned that pushing myself to learn and do something new is rewarding. While I dreaded the idea of making videos and showing my face on SM, it’s actually been growing easier and I’m finding enjoyment in it…especially when I can act goofy.

                        SP: You’re a YA fiction writer and a screenwriter too. Tell us about this? 

                        RA: I have a YA fantasy dragon trilogy I’ve been working on for several years and will publish it when I have the series complete. I also love writing screenplays because I can write a story the way I visualize it. In fact, I finished the screenplay of 12 Days to Christmas before I completed the novel! If anyone is interested in partnering to make it a movie, let me know 😉

                        SP: Time for the lightning round! Early bird or night owl?

                        RA: Night owl ALLLL the way. Don’t ever wake me up before 10am, LOL

                        SP: Most obscure hobby?

                        RA: I’m a homeschool mom and writer so I don’t have lots of free time for hobbies but I do spend more time than I should watching videos: especially dashcam footage of crazy drivers and home inspectors showing all kinds of messed up houses. Does that count?

                        I also love watching kdramas, going thrifting, and sleeping in.

                        SP: Word you can never spell? This may be a trick question.

                        RA: Definitely. (Thank goodness for autocorrect!) Also, “horsdeouvres”…those tiny snack bites before a meal, haha.

                        SP: Alright, time’s up! We’re so sad to see you go! BUT…there’s way more where this came from. Where can we go to read more from you?

                        RA: I’m on instagram @rebeccaalexandruauthor and have all my links in my bio. Check out my website for free coloring pages and a new, exciting gift soon! (Hint: it’s connected to 12 Days to Christmas and vintage styles)

                        Thanks so much for your time RA! To check out RA’s series, go HERE. To connect with her on Instagram go HERE. Check out her website go HERE.

                        IG: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccaalexandruauthor/

                        FB: https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.alexandru.92/ 

                        Website: https://rebeccaalexandru.com/ 

                        Order book: https://happilybooked.company.site/products/12-days-to-Christmas-Pre-Order-P-p694595326 

                        Purchase the eBook early on Smashwords:

                        https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1637534 
                        — 

                        Rebecca Alexandru

                        Book Review: Finale

                        finaTitle: Finale

                        Author: Stephanie Garber

                        Blurb (from Amazon):


                        A love worth fighting for. A dream worth dying for. An ending worth waiting for.

                        It’s been two months since the Fates were freed from a deck of cards, two months since Legend claimed the throne for his own, and two months since Tella discovered the boy she fell in love with doesn’t really exist.

                        With lives, empires, and hearts hanging in the balance, Tella must decide if she’s going to trust Legend or a former enemy. After uncovering a secret that upends her life, Scarlett will need to do the impossible. And Legend has a choice to make that will forever change and define him.

                        Caraval is over, but perhaps the greatest game of all has begun. There are no spectators this time: only those who will win, and those who will lose everything.

                        Welcome, welcome to Finale. All games must come to an end… Continue reading

                        Book Review: Bridge of Clay

                        BOCTitle: Bridge of Clay

                        Author: Markus Zusak

                        Blurb: The breathtaking story of five brothers who bring each other up in a world run by their own rules. As the Dunbar boys love and fight and learn to reckon with the adult world, they discover the moving secret behind their father’s disappearance.

                        At the center of the Dunbar family is Clay, a boy who will build a bridge—for his family, for his past, for greatness, for his sins, for a miracle.

                        The question is, how far is Clay willing to go? And how much can he overcome? Continue reading

                        Book Review: Just For Clicks

                        just for clicks book mockup photoTitle: Just For Clicks  (Release date: February 19, 2019)

                        Author: Kara McDowell

                        Blurb: Mommy blogs are great . . . unless the blog happens to belong to your mom.

                        Twin sisters Claire & Poppy are accidental social media stars thanks to Mom going viral when they were babies. Now, as teens, they’re expected to contribute by building their own brand. Attending a NY fashion week and receiving fan mail is a blast. Fending off internet trolls and would-be kidnappers? Not so much. Poppy embraces it. Claire hates it. Will anybody accept her as “just Claire”? And what should Claire do about Mom’s old journals? The handwritten entries definitely don’t sound like Mom’s perfect blog persona. Worse, one of them divulges a secret that leaves Claire wondering what else in her life might be nothing but a sham . . . Continue reading

                        Marissa Meyer, the Renegades Series Tour, & Tips for the Writer

                        I know, I know; The Lunar Chronicles should probably be talked about first when it comes to Marissa Meyer’s books, but that series would need a whole set of posts to cover (which I am tempted to do!) But I got to attend an author event for Archenemies last month while she was on tour promoting it, so we’re taking tips from that talk instead!

                        First off, I must mention Archenemies, the 2nd book of the Renegades trilogy. How does her second series hold up to the first (The Lunar Chronicles)?   Continue reading

                        Book Review: To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before

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                        Title: To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before (first of a trilogy)

                        Author: Jenny Han

                        Blurb: To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before is the story of Lara Jean, who has never openly admitted her crushes, but instead wrote each boy a letter about how she felt, sealed it, and hid it in a box under her bed. But one day Lara Jean discovers that somehow her secret box of letters has been mailed, causing all her crushes from her past to confront her about the letters: her first kiss, the boy from summer camp, even her sister’s ex-boyfriend, Josh. As she learns to deal with her past loves face to face, Lara Jean discovers that something good may come out of these letters after all.

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                        Review:  To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before was on my TBR list for quite a while. Unfortunately—or fortunately?—the movie adaptation came out on Netflix and I couldn’t resist all the gushing reviews, so I—GASP!—watched the movie first. Let’s just say the book immediately jumped the queue on my reading list and was just as enjoyable as the flick. You’ll cheer Lara Jean on from start to finish, swoon over Peter Kavinsky, and crave a bite of every cookie Lara Jean bakes. The story is charming and will give you all the warm and fuzzies as it takes you back to your first crush and first love. Continue reading

                        Book Review: Legendary by Stephanie Garber

                        Legendary cover

                        Title: Legendary

                        Author: Stephanie Garber

                        Blurb:

                        A heart to protect. A debt to repay. A game to win.

                        After being swept up in the magical world of Caraval, Donatella Dragna has finally escaped her father and saved her sister Scarlett from a disastrous arranged marriage. The girls should be celebrating, but Tella isn’t yet free. She made a desperate bargain with a mysterious criminal, and what Tella owes him no one has ever been able to deliver: Caraval Master Legend’s true name. Continue reading