Have Young Adult Books Become Too Sexualized?

Literature for teens is flooded with sexual content that would be intense at any age. As a result, books are being banned all over the country.

Is a book rating system the answer?
Opinion Piece By Young Adult Author Lorie Langdon

In the 2023–2024 school year alone, there were over 10,000 recorded instances of book bans across more than 4,000 unique titles, according to PEN America. Libraries and schools are getting more requests from parents to remove books with explicit sexual content that are targeted to teens and tweens. This raises a compelling question; are adult authors writing porn for minors?

Young Adult Literature is No Longer for Children

The young adult genre has grown by leaps and bounds since the days of Nancy Drew, Sweet Valley High, and The Outsiders.

Around 2006, the Twilight Series and Hunger Games ushered in a new genre of fiction. Young Adult books exploded onto the literary scene and earned their own section of bookstore and library shelves. Readers of all ages enjoyed these coming-of-age stories that were well-crafted, imaginative, and easier reads than many adult fiction options, yet contained more sophisticated plots and complex characterization than children’s books. Soon, fan-fiction online began to sexualize these young adult characters, spawning such mega best-sellers as Fifty Shades of Grey.

In the past decade, the books marketed to teens and tweens have crossed into adult territory, becoming increasingly mature in nature. Many of these novels contain step-by-step intimacy between heterosexual and homosexual couples, as well as extolling multiple partners at the same time.

At the time of writing this article the #4 New York Times best-selling young adult book, Bitten, contains descriptive depictions of a ‘threesome,’ erotic asphyxiation, and sexual violence. One of the biggest selling series of recent years, Haunting Adeline and Hunting Adeline, according to BooksRun.com includes detailed depictions of human trafficking, child abuse, stalking, and scenes of ‘romanticized’ rape that leads to the victim falling in love with her rapist, the man who physically and mentally abuses her. It is not enough for the author to say on Amazon, “Please visit my website for content warnings.”

Children are being exposed to these X-rated themes on bookstore shelves that are supposed to nurture their imaginations and protect their innocence. The damage has already been done by the time the parents realize what their children have read.

When the Problem Hits Too Close to Home

This October, my literary agent attended the Frankfurt Book Festival—one of the largest gatherings of publishing professionals in the world—and was told by every editor that they only want books with sexual content for their young adult imprints. These editors were from the U.S., as well as Europe.

When my first book, DOON, was released in 2013, I had a nine-year-old girl who devoured the series and attended my book events in multiple states. Many children with advanced reading levels are encouraged to read above their grade level. Which brings up the concern that has remained unaddressed in publishing; should adult authors who are pushing the envelope in order to get book sales be the ones to introduce sex to a nine-year-old?

In 2025, Closed Door Romance conducted a survey of 56K romance readers and discovered that 68% first encountered sexually explicit reading material between the ages of 11-17, with 15% saying they were under 11 years of age. Many said this early exposure shaped how they saw love, intimacy, and themselves.

Due to this trend, many readers, teachers, and parents are turning to small, independent publishers like Quill & Flame who only publish ‘Books that Bring Light’ without sex on the page. Bookstores and libraries do not carry books from small publishers though, so this greatly decreases their distribution.

Moreover, at what point should publishers be held accountable for putting damaging material in our children’s hands? At the very least, if they cannot be made to stop exposing minors to X-rated adult content (a punishable offense in every other circle of our society), they can institute a rating system.

A Viable Solution

Media such as TV, movies, video games, and even music have content ratings or warnings which guide consumers and allow them to make informed decisions regarding their consumption. We have ‘parental controls’ on our tv streaming apps, smart phones, tablets, and Wi-fi systems. Why not books?

I, for one, would love a ratings sticker or a content warning page inside every book, not only for myself, but because adult books with fairytale tie-ins draw children in as well.

Industry Standards Need to Change

The ‘burning’ of objectionable books has happened for centuries. It’s time we do something different—a more sustainable solution that allows room for artistic freedom while protecting young readers and informing consumers. Let’s call for publishers to take responsibility for the content they print by instituting a standardized book rating system that is clearly displayed on every book cover.

We need to protect age-appropriate spaces for our children and teens to explore literature. It’s time for us to take a stand, and for publishing as a whole to do better.

NOTE: Lorie is planning a petition on a state level starting with libraries and parents. If you would like to join her or have expertise in this area, she would like to talk with you. Please email us to get in contact with her at thespinningpen@gmail.com

To hear Lorie Langdon talk more on this subject click here. She is open for questions via her DM’s on Instagram.

Stay tuned for our next article on Recommended Reading Lists for Teens, Young Adults and Families!

Interview with YA Romantasy Author Melissa Poett

SP: Hi Melissa, we are so excited to interview you! First congratulations on your debut novel! We have read it and are OBSESSED!!!! Few authors go to auction with publishers on their first book but after reading it, we know why!

So, to begin — can you start by telling us how did you first realized you wanted to write a story and become a published author? 

    MP: I got into writing in a pretty typical way—it started as just a hobby. But the more I figured it out, the more I fell in love with it. Eventually, I started to believe I actually had something worth reading, so I decided to take a shot at traditional publishing. But yeah, it definitely wasn’t an overnight thing. We’re talking a process that took years and years.

    SP: How long did it take you to write The Enemy’s Daughter

      MP: I would say about a year to shape it into something I felt comfortable querying to literary agents. Then once it was picked up by my publishers, we went through edits again.

      SP: Other than The Enemy’s Daughter being a “Tristan and Isolde reimagining,” is there anything else you drew inspiration from while writing your story, like a film, novel, or song?

        MP: Yeah, I absolutely loved the Tristan and Isolde movie with James Franco and Sophia Myles (watch it if you haven’t seen it!), and I can confidently say it sparked in me a deep-seated affection for the legends from the 12th century. 

        SP: Are there any themes or messages within the story that mean something to you?

          MP: Yes. But the tricky part is that most of the themes in The Enemy’s Daughter stem from spoilers or plot twists—and I’m pretty sure people would come for me if I gave those away here. What I can say is that in writing this book, I was processing a lot of my frustrations with real-world events, which led to some tough questions about war, freedom, and what truly makes a great leader.

          SP: What would you like readers to know about you and your upcoming novel? 

            MP: Readers can expect enemies-to-lovers and forbidden love woven into a dystopian world with magic. But within that, it’s also a story about two young people on opposite sides of a war who mess around with a love potion of sorts. So there’s an instant push and pull that’s heavy on the romance as they’re drawn together. But ultimately, they’ll have to choose whether to give in to their bond, or betray the other to save their own people. And if that’s your thing, then you’re my people and THE ENEMY’S DAUGHTER is likely for you!

            SP: What do you hope readers will take away from the book?

              MP: The story is the embodiment of my favorite tropes, so I hope to make you swoon, gasp, and cackle with laughter (for those of you who know, I’m talking about the tie-him-to-the-tree scene ;). But most of all, I hope to open people’s eyes to the insidious ways that we lose our power and freedom as a society.

              SP: Now that you’re officially a published author, what advice would you give aspiring writers?

                 MP: Oh gosh, there are so many things. But here are three:

                1. Always back up your manuscript.
                2. Check your junk mail regularly when you’re querying. No, seriously—go do it right now.
                3. Build your writing community. Writing doesn’t have to be lonely. Make friends. Critique each other’s work. It’ll make both of you better writers.

                SP: What authors do you love and draw inspiration from?

                  MP: Tahereh Mafi and Sabaa Tahir are two of my favs. Tahereh blew my mind when I read her for the first time because of how deeply she emersed me in the story. That was a class, and I ate it up! Sabaa is the queen of giving you a heart attack as you read. No character is safe. No plot twist too big. I aspire to live up to those standards. 

                  SP: What do you do when writers block strikes or when it’s hard to find inspiration? 

                    MP: I think reading is an excellent option for writer’s block. But when I just don’t know what to write for a scene, listening to music or taking a nap has been surprisingly effective. Sometimes doing both at the same time. Never underestimate your subconscious and its power to solve a lot of your problems if you just give it the space and environment to work it out for you. 

                    SP: Are you currently working on any other exciting projects? 

                      MP: Yes! I’m working on book two. I can’t say a whole lot about it yet, but I can say it will be in the same world with the same magic system!

                      SP: So where are you hanging out these days where we can find you?

                      MP: You can find me via my website or IG!
                      Insta: https://www.instagram.com/melissawritesya/ & Website: www.melissapoett.com

                      SP: Thanks Melissa for being here with us! For readers, we posted the official synopsis below with an amazon link (although we suggest going to a local bookstore!)

                      OFFICIAL BLURB:

                      A stunning reimagining of Tristan and Isolde set in a dystopian world woven with magic. An addictive debut YA enemies-to-lovers romantasyperfect for fans of Rebecca Ross and Sarah Underwood as well as books like Curious TidesThe Hurricane Wars, and Belladonna.

                      It’s been thirty-seven years since the Republic was destroyed. Now two settlements—the five clans and the Kingsland—fight for control of the untainted land. Though the five clans are outnumbered, they’ve finally struck, killing Kingsland’s brutal leader.

                      In the war that follows, Isadora, an eighteen-year-old healer, risks her life to help injured soldiers. But when she stops an attack from Tristan, a Kingsland assassin, his soldiers shoot her with a poisoned arrow. As Isadora lies dying, Tristan does the unimaginable: He offers to save her life using a rare magic. 

                      In choosing to live, Isadora is unknowingly bound to the mysterious Tristan. Worse, even acknowledging the attraction between them allows him to glean fragments of her memories and the very knowledge he needs to destroy the five clans. But their magical connection works both ways. So to save her people, Isadora will have to open her heart to her most cunning enemy. Because in a race for ultimate survival, she’ll need to destroy Tristan and his people first.

                      BUY HERE: https://a.co/d/6MpKsnd

                      Love and Books ~

                      Author Interview: Tara Goedjen

                      SP: Hi Tara! We’re so excited to have you here on the Spinning Pen! Can you tell us a little about you and your writing journey? How did you get your start?
                      TG: You know that kid who brings a book everywhere? That was me. (My guess is that everyone reading this interview was the same way!) In high school, I wrote as much as I could: on napkins, scraps of paper, pocket notebooks.

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                      ENHANCED Cover Reveal by Young Adult Debut Author, Candace Kade

                      Lee Urban is living a lie.

                      In a society where everyone’s DNA determines their destiny, being a Natural means automatic relegation to the gritty and dangerous Outskirts. With the harnessed power of gene-editing, the ability to create a super-human race has transformed the world and offered the opportunity of a genetically enhanced life. But only to those who can afford it.

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                      Author Interview: CJ Milacci

                      SP: Hi CJ! So glad to chat with you today! When did you start writing and what are your favorite genres?

                      CJ: Thank you so much for having me! I started on my writing journey about eight years ago. I wanted a story I could hand to the teen and young adult girls I was talking to, who needed a reprieve from the pain they were facing in their lives, but also a way to learn deeper truths. 

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                      Author Interview: Sandra Fernandez Rhoads

                      Please join me in welcoming S.F. Rhoads to The Spinning Pen! Sandra was born in Queens and raised in Texas where she earned an MA in her seventeenth-century crush, John Milton. This talented author also has experience in acting, directing, and script writing!

                      SP: Hi Sandra! How did you start writing YA fiction specifically, and what made you decide to pursue that professionally? (Also, I’m dying to know who your other literary crushes are!)

                      Sandra: I love talking about story, process, and creativity but what I love most is to encourage others to see their talents/art as valuable and important gifts to the world, so thanks for having me as a guest!

                      A little about me: I’ve always been a storyteller and writer, although it wasn’t necessarily on paper. Mainly I’d create fantasy worlds in my daydreams while I was on the playground or doing chores.

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                      Confessions of an Editor: Katie S. Williams

                      Why I Really Do What I Do (and Why It Matters to You)

                      Let’s try a little experiment. What comes to mind when I say, “It’s time to edit your story”?

                      For many writers, the notion of editing conjures an unwelcome memory of brutal critique or derision—a time you offered your story to a peer or mentor only to be shot down.

                      Maybe for you, it was a stern English teacher in grade school who filled your papers with inky red hieroglyphics. Or perhaps that college critique group who ripped your idea to shreds and laughed about it—right in front of you. Maybe you’re visualizing the relative who scorned your dream of becoming a writer and told you to find “real” aspirations instead.

                      Or perhaps—if you’re lucky—you don’t have any specific negative memories of critique; there’s just a general tightening in your midsection at the thought of sending your story child off to a total stranger who probably collects red pens and blogs about comma abuse.

                      Whatever the source of your apprehension, I get it. Writing stories—even fictional ones—is a deeply personal endeavor, and there’s something terrifying about revealing your creation to another human being, especially when that human’s job (and possibly joy in life) seems to be identifying all of your flaws and weaknesses.

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                      Pen Friends ~ Please welcome YA Author Candice Yamnitz talking about her debut novel, UNBETHROTHED, publishing journey, writing dreams, and so much more! It’s always a joy to interview new authors, and I’m excited to have Candice here with us today.

                      SP: UNBETROTHED will come out in February 2022 by Illuminate YA. Please add on Goodreads while waiting! Here’s the blurb:

                      Around Agatha Sea, princesses are poised, magically gifted, and betrothed.

                      So, when seventeen-year-old Princess Beatriz still fails to secure a betrothal, her parents hold a ball. Forming an alliance could mean the difference between peace and war, but Beatriz doesn’t want just any suitor. She’s in love with her best friend, Prince Lux. Marrying Prince Lux will always be a silly dream as long as she has no magical gift.

                      Princess Beatriz will do whatever it takes to obtain a touch of magic, including making a deadly oath to go on a quest to Valle de Los Fantasmas. A valley where no one comes out alive.

                      If she can manage to succeed, Princess Beatriz could have everything she desires and secure peace for her kingdom. If she fails, she’ll lose not only her greatest dream but also her kingdom, and maybe even her own life.

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                      Pen Friends ~ Please welcome YA Author Victoria McCombs talking about her new novel, OATHBOUND, publishing journey, writing tips, and so much more!

                      SP: Hi Victoria! I’m thrilled to have you on the SP for your newest book! You’ve penned so many wonderful books and this one feels like it’s going to be the crème de le crème! What brought you to this point in your writing journey? How has your writing progressed since your first published book?

                      It’s insane to think about where I started as a writer and where I am now. For my first books, I had the beginning of a story idea and I just started writing it. The end result was messy and shallow. For Oathbound, I covered the walls in character charts, outlines, a map, and themes for the book before starting. Now it’s a story that I’m really proud of. I owe it all to the writing community who shared writing tips. They pushed me to grow in my craft and study it instead of casually throw words together.

                      SP: OATHBOUND will released on February 8, 2022 by Enclave, it’s the first book in the Royal Rose Series. Please add on Goodreads or go ahead and PreOrder, I did! Here’s the blurb:

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                      Author Interview: Chelsea Bobulski

                      Pen Friends ~ So happy to introduce you to a good friend and YA author, Chelsea Bobulski, author of The Wood and Remember Me, (out with Macmillan) who recently announced her new 4-book deal, with Wise Wolf Books!

                      SP: Hi Chelsea! Thanks for joining us! Before we get into book stuff, we’d LOVE to know a bit about you and your writing journey!

                      CB: Thank you so much for having me! My journey has been ten years in the making if you can believe it (although, really, it has been the trajectory of my entire life). I’ve always loved storytelling in all of its various forms. Whether it’s a good book, TV show, movie, play, or even video game, I’ve always loved exploring human nature, both through reading and through writing, although it wasn’t until I took a class at the Thurber House in Columbus, Ohio my senior year at The Ohio State University that I ever thought I could really make a career of writing. Before that class, I’d put my favorite authors on a pedestal, thinking they must have been born published authors, because there was just no way the average person could write a 300+ page book, let alone dozens of them. But taking that class with YA author Lisa Klein opened my eyes to the fact that every author, whether on their first book or their one hundredth, starts the same way: with an idea and a blank page. To make a very long story short, I began pursuing traditional publication right after that, although it took me five books and five years to get my very first book deal, and now, in my tenth year of pursuing this career, I have two books published and countless others that may never see the light of day, some due to the fact that I wrote them early in my career when I was still learning and growing as an author, and some due to the market just not being right at the time for that type of book (although I’m hopeful that I may get the opportunity to pursue them someday). 

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