Have Young Adult Books Become Too Sexualized?

Literature for teens is flooded with sexual content that would be intense at any age. As a result, books are being banned all over the country.

Is a book rating system the answer?
Opinion Piece By Young Adult Author Lorie Langdon

In the 2023–2024 school year alone, there were over 10,000 recorded instances of book bans across more than 4,000 unique titles, according to PEN America. Libraries and schools are getting more requests from parents to remove books with explicit sexual content that are targeted to teens and tweens. This raises a compelling question; are adult authors writing porn for minors?

Young Adult Literature is No Longer for Children

The young adult genre has grown by leaps and bounds since the days of Nancy Drew, Sweet Valley High, and The Outsiders.

Around 2006, the Twilight Series and Hunger Games ushered in a new genre of fiction. Young Adult books exploded onto the literary scene and earned their own section of bookstore and library shelves. Readers of all ages enjoyed these coming-of-age stories that were well-crafted, imaginative, and easier reads than many adult fiction options, yet contained more sophisticated plots and complex characterization than children’s books. Soon, fan-fiction online began to sexualize these young adult characters, spawning such mega best-sellers as Fifty Shades of Grey.

In the past decade, the books marketed to teens and tweens have crossed into adult territory, becoming increasingly mature in nature. Many of these novels contain step-by-step intimacy between heterosexual and homosexual couples, as well as extolling multiple partners at the same time.

At the time of writing this article the #4 New York Times best-selling young adult book, Bitten, contains descriptive depictions of a ‘threesome,’ erotic asphyxiation, and sexual violence. One of the biggest selling series of recent years, Haunting Adeline and Hunting Adeline, according to BooksRun.com includes detailed depictions of human trafficking, child abuse, stalking, and scenes of ‘romanticized’ rape that leads to the victim falling in love with her rapist, the man who physically and mentally abuses her. It is not enough for the author to say on Amazon, “Please visit my website for content warnings.”

Children are being exposed to these X-rated themes on bookstore shelves that are supposed to nurture their imaginations and protect their innocence. The damage has already been done by the time the parents realize what their children have read.

When the Problem Hits Too Close to Home

This October, my literary agent attended the Frankfurt Book Festival—one of the largest gatherings of publishing professionals in the world—and was told by every editor that they only want books with sexual content for their young adult imprints. These editors were from the U.S., as well as Europe.

When my first book, DOON, was released in 2013, I had a nine-year-old girl who devoured the series and attended my book events in multiple states. Many children with advanced reading levels are encouraged to read above their grade level. Which brings up the concern that has remained unaddressed in publishing; should adult authors who are pushing the envelope in order to get book sales be the ones to introduce sex to a nine-year-old?

In 2025, Closed Door Romance conducted a survey of 56K romance readers and discovered that 68% first encountered sexually explicit reading material between the ages of 11-17, with 15% saying they were under 11 years of age. Many said this early exposure shaped how they saw love, intimacy, and themselves.

Due to this trend, many readers, teachers, and parents are turning to small, independent publishers like Quill & Flame who only publish ‘Books that Bring Light’ without sex on the page. Bookstores and libraries do not carry books from small publishers though, so this greatly decreases their distribution.

Moreover, at what point should publishers be held accountable for putting damaging material in our children’s hands? At the very least, if they cannot be made to stop exposing minors to X-rated adult content (a punishable offense in every other circle of our society), they can institute a rating system.

A Viable Solution

Media such as TV, movies, video games, and even music have content ratings or warnings which guide consumers and allow them to make informed decisions regarding their consumption. We have ‘parental controls’ on our tv streaming apps, smart phones, tablets, and Wi-fi systems. Why not books?

I, for one, would love a ratings sticker or a content warning page inside every book, not only for myself, but because adult books with fairytale tie-ins draw children in as well.

Industry Standards Need to Change

The ‘burning’ of objectionable books has happened for centuries. It’s time we do something different—a more sustainable solution that allows room for artistic freedom while protecting young readers and informing consumers. Let’s call for publishers to take responsibility for the content they print by instituting a standardized book rating system that is clearly displayed on every book cover.

We need to protect age-appropriate spaces for our children and teens to explore literature. It’s time for us to take a stand, and for publishing as a whole to do better.

NOTE: Lorie is planning a petition on a state level starting with libraries and parents. If you would like to join her or have expertise in this area, she would like to talk with you. Please email us to get in contact with her at thespinningpen@gmail.com

To hear Lorie Langdon talk more on this subject click here. She is open for questions via her DM’s on Instagram.

Stay tuned for our next article on Recommended Reading Lists for Teens, Young Adults and Families!

The Perfect Winter Reading List

“You can never get a cup of tea large enough or a book long enough to suit me.” –CS Lewis

At the Spinning Pen, sitting next to a fireplace, a warm drink in hand, a cozy blanket and a stack of books is pretty much our ideal world. Add winter and twinkling lights, and it’s perfection.

That said, we have put together the perfect winter reading list for you, all of which would make ideal gifts and longterm shelf candy. Enjoy!

THE PERFECT WINTER READING LIST:

    1. Souls as Cold as Frost — for those craving a Narnia type adventure with depth, courage and battles.
    2. Iron Rose — for those craving a unique Beauty and the Beast meets Hunger Games type story. You’ll find a wintery castle, deep healing, powerful connection, and a kingdom to save.
    3. Winter Maiden – for those craving epic battles
    4. Activated – for those craving epic adventure, northern lights, deep truths, and high stakes. “Teen genius and her band of prodigies team up with unlikely allies to stop a catastrophic satellite breakdown. Global chaos is at stake and so is the boy she loves. (Note: Activated is book 3 in the Calculated series – series in process to be a feature film!)
    5. The Gifting – for those craving a supernatural thriller, on the edge of your seat mystery, and a beautifully done connection/soulmate trope romance.
    6. Once Upon a Christmas Past – for those craving a swoony, whimsical new classic in the vein of A Christmas Carol.
    7. Mammoth – for those craving a GOONIE, Indiana Jones teen adventure!
    8. Suspended in the Stars– for those craving fandoms like Skyward and The Lunar ChroniclesThe Greatest Showman or Star Wars in a fast-paced and swoony, no spice YA Science Fantasy space adventure. “A GIRL IN HIDING. A BOY ON THE RUN. THE FATE OF THE GALAXY BETWEEN THEM.”
    9. The Winter King – for those craving a mystery and a village trapped in winter, a tyrannical god, and a girl who will do anything to keep her family alive….
    10. Girl Next Door (All I Want for Christmas series book 1) – Wish Upon a Star meets Its a wonderful life -A boy finds himself caught between a decade-long love for the girl next door and the realization that some wishes are better left unfulfilled.
    11. Christmas on the Goblin Express – for those craving adventure and new perspective — “For Claire Samson, the only way to survive Christmas this year is to escape it.”
    12. Ballad of Never After – for those craving a winter chase, the jaw-dropping sequel to the ONCE UPON A BROKEN HEART, starring Evangeline Fox and the Prince of Hearts on a new journey of magic, mystery, and heartbreak…

    Have a NEW YEAR book suggestion we want to feature? EMAIL US!

    NOTE: all of these books are no spice and appropriate for 13+

    Stay Warm and Enjoy your Winter Reading!

    THE SPINNING PEN TEAM

    Interview with YA Romantasy Author Melissa Poett

    SP: Hi Melissa, we are so excited to interview you! First congratulations on your debut novel! We have read it and are OBSESSED!!!! Few authors go to auction with publishers on their first book but after reading it, we know why!

    So, to begin — can you start by telling us how did you first realized you wanted to write a story and become a published author? 

      MP: I got into writing in a pretty typical way—it started as just a hobby. But the more I figured it out, the more I fell in love with it. Eventually, I started to believe I actually had something worth reading, so I decided to take a shot at traditional publishing. But yeah, it definitely wasn’t an overnight thing. We’re talking a process that took years and years.

      SP: How long did it take you to write The Enemy’s Daughter

        MP: I would say about a year to shape it into something I felt comfortable querying to literary agents. Then once it was picked up by my publishers, we went through edits again.

        SP: Other than The Enemy’s Daughter being a “Tristan and Isolde reimagining,” is there anything else you drew inspiration from while writing your story, like a film, novel, or song?

          MP: Yeah, I absolutely loved the Tristan and Isolde movie with James Franco and Sophia Myles (watch it if you haven’t seen it!), and I can confidently say it sparked in me a deep-seated affection for the legends from the 12th century. 

          SP: Are there any themes or messages within the story that mean something to you?

            MP: Yes. But the tricky part is that most of the themes in The Enemy’s Daughter stem from spoilers or plot twists—and I’m pretty sure people would come for me if I gave those away here. What I can say is that in writing this book, I was processing a lot of my frustrations with real-world events, which led to some tough questions about war, freedom, and what truly makes a great leader.

            SP: What would you like readers to know about you and your upcoming novel? 

              MP: Readers can expect enemies-to-lovers and forbidden love woven into a dystopian world with magic. But within that, it’s also a story about two young people on opposite sides of a war who mess around with a love potion of sorts. So there’s an instant push and pull that’s heavy on the romance as they’re drawn together. But ultimately, they’ll have to choose whether to give in to their bond, or betray the other to save their own people. And if that’s your thing, then you’re my people and THE ENEMY’S DAUGHTER is likely for you!

              SP: What do you hope readers will take away from the book?

                MP: The story is the embodiment of my favorite tropes, so I hope to make you swoon, gasp, and cackle with laughter (for those of you who know, I’m talking about the tie-him-to-the-tree scene ;). But most of all, I hope to open people’s eyes to the insidious ways that we lose our power and freedom as a society.

                SP: Now that you’re officially a published author, what advice would you give aspiring writers?

                   MP: Oh gosh, there are so many things. But here are three:

                  1. Always back up your manuscript.
                  2. Check your junk mail regularly when you’re querying. No, seriously—go do it right now.
                  3. Build your writing community. Writing doesn’t have to be lonely. Make friends. Critique each other’s work. It’ll make both of you better writers.

                  SP: What authors do you love and draw inspiration from?

                    MP: Tahereh Mafi and Sabaa Tahir are two of my favs. Tahereh blew my mind when I read her for the first time because of how deeply she emersed me in the story. That was a class, and I ate it up! Sabaa is the queen of giving you a heart attack as you read. No character is safe. No plot twist too big. I aspire to live up to those standards. 

                    SP: What do you do when writers block strikes or when it’s hard to find inspiration? 

                      MP: I think reading is an excellent option for writer’s block. But when I just don’t know what to write for a scene, listening to music or taking a nap has been surprisingly effective. Sometimes doing both at the same time. Never underestimate your subconscious and its power to solve a lot of your problems if you just give it the space and environment to work it out for you. 

                      SP: Are you currently working on any other exciting projects? 

                        MP: Yes! I’m working on book two. I can’t say a whole lot about it yet, but I can say it will be in the same world with the same magic system!

                        SP: So where are you hanging out these days where we can find you?

                        MP: You can find me via my website or IG!
                        Insta: https://www.instagram.com/melissawritesya/ & Website: www.melissapoett.com

                        SP: Thanks Melissa for being here with us! For readers, we posted the official synopsis below with an amazon link (although we suggest going to a local bookstore!)

                        OFFICIAL BLURB:

                        A stunning reimagining of Tristan and Isolde set in a dystopian world woven with magic. An addictive debut YA enemies-to-lovers romantasyperfect for fans of Rebecca Ross and Sarah Underwood as well as books like Curious TidesThe Hurricane Wars, and Belladonna.

                        It’s been thirty-seven years since the Republic was destroyed. Now two settlements—the five clans and the Kingsland—fight for control of the untainted land. Though the five clans are outnumbered, they’ve finally struck, killing Kingsland’s brutal leader.

                        In the war that follows, Isadora, an eighteen-year-old healer, risks her life to help injured soldiers. But when she stops an attack from Tristan, a Kingsland assassin, his soldiers shoot her with a poisoned arrow. As Isadora lies dying, Tristan does the unimaginable: He offers to save her life using a rare magic. 

                        In choosing to live, Isadora is unknowingly bound to the mysterious Tristan. Worse, even acknowledging the attraction between them allows him to glean fragments of her memories and the very knowledge he needs to destroy the five clans. But their magical connection works both ways. So to save her people, Isadora will have to open her heart to her most cunning enemy. Because in a race for ultimate survival, she’ll need to destroy Tristan and his people first.

                        BUY HERE: https://a.co/d/6MpKsnd

                        Love and Books ~

                        Cover Reveal & Author Interview with V. Romas Burton

                        SP: Hi Vanessa! We’re so excited to have you here on the Spinning Pen! We would love for you to tell us all a little bit about you and your writing journey. How did you get your start?

                        VB: Hi! Thank you so much! I’m so excited to be here! I first started writing after I graduated from grad school. I was confused as to where I wanted my life to go and used writing as a way to cope through some difficult times. It was a wonderful outlet and I never would’ve thought so many stories would emerge from that time. 

                        SP: Awesome! Now for some bookish conversation…First off, congratulations on revealing the beautiful cover of your upcoming book, FORTIFIED, which we can now preorder! Can you tell us more about it? 

                        Add official blurb:

                        Devora’s perfect future shatters. Instead of attending Vlacklear Academy, she is sent to the Fortress—a prison holding murderers and thieves that make up the soldiers in His Majesty’s Army.  She fears it is the end of her.

                        Suppressing her forbidden Seeing abilities, Devora is thrust into the role of soldier, and must learn to defend herself while avoiding Warden Hazor and his ruthless right-hand man, Captain Blake.

                        When Devora’s Seeing abilities are exposed, she’s thrown into a tournament to win her right to live.  She must turn to Captain Blake for help or be slaughtered like all the other Seers before her.

                        VB: Yes! I’m so excited about this book because it encompasses so many bookish themes I love. Fortified is inspired by the story of Deborah in the book of Judges, but mashed with inspiration of Mulan with a little sprinkling of Pride and Prejudice. It’s a wild mix of themes, but I love how they came together!

                        SP: Talk to us about fantasy and worldbuilding–how do you build your worlds? 

                        VB: When I first started writing, it was difficult not to dump a whole bunch on information in the beginning of the story. Over time, I’ve learned to drip in little pieces of information about the world until the reader has the whole image without realizing it. 

                        SP: As an award winning author of Heartmender, and its sequel, Heartbreaker, you already have two books under your belt. What was different about writing a new series? In which ways did you find that you grew as an author?

                        VB: At first I wasn’t sure if I could move on to new characters. I had grown close to Addie and the others in the Heartmaker Trilogy. But as I started writing about Devora, Captain Blake, and a slew of new characters, I began to fall more in love with them and couldn’t stop until I knew what happened in their stories. 

                        I definitely feel like my style of writing has matured. I’ve learned how to describe emotions and action more fluidly than before. 

                        SP: Can you tell us a bit more about your writing process? 

                        VB: Haha, it’s a bit of a mess, which is completely the opposite of who I am as a person. I am an extreme type-A who runs off of lists and sticky notes. But when I write, I only know basic plot points and let the story unfold as I type. I’m a totally pantser all the way! 

                        SP: What is one craft technique or marketing tip you would recommend to other writers?

                        VB: Reach out to other authors who write in similar genres as you. It doesn’t have to be exactly the same (i.e. you can both write YA not YA Fantasy). Create a community with others. My publisher now used to be one of my ARC readers for Heartmender! You never know where the relationships you make will lead!

                        SP: You recently signed with Quill and Flame publishers! Congratulations! What is one tip for writers interested in working with an indie press?

                        VB: Thank you so much! A tip would be to do your research on what presses you want to work. As an indie author, I work very close with my publisher and I’m so thankful we have a great relationship! When sending out proposals, be sure to only submit to places you really want to work with!

                        SP: Time for the lightning round! Early bird or night owl?

                        VB: Early bird!

                        SP: Most obscure hobby?

                        VB: I am secretly (not so secretly!) obsessed with Webtoons!

                        SP: Word you can never spell? This may be a trick question.

                        VB: Definitely. I always second guess myself on it 😛

                        SP: Alright, time’s up! We’re so sad to see you go! BUT…there’s way more where this came from. Where can we go to read more from you?

                        VB: Thank you so much for having me! This was so much fun! You can sign up for my newsletter for book updates and exciting things happening: HERE

                        All my books are sold where books are sold and you can get signed copies through the Quill & Flame Etsy shop!

                        Book Giveaway & Author’s Note!

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                        READERS:
                        WHO WOULD LIKE TO WIN A CRAZY AWESOME PETER PAN RETELLING?

                        You? Your daughter? Your best friend whose birthday is coming up? Your long lost cousin in Brazil? Your sister who is driving you crazy during lockdown?

                         

                        Fantastic! You’re in the right spot! The SP is partnering with YA Author Kara Swanson to do a GIVEAWAY for her upcoming book, DUST!

                        *Intriguing summary below!*

                        The truth about Neverland is far more dangerous than a fairy tale.

                        Claire Kenton believes the world is too dark for magic to be real–since her twin brother was stolen away as a child. Now Claire’s desperate search points to London… and a boy who shouldn’t exist.

                        Peter Pan is having a beastly time getting back to Neverland. Grounded in London and hunted by his own Lost Boys, Peter searches for the last hope of restoring his crumbling island: a lass with magic in her veins.

                        The girl who fears her own destiny is on a collision course with the boy who never wanted to grow up. The truth behind this fairy tale is about to unravel everything Claire thought she knew about Peter Pan–and herself.

                        TO WIN:

                        Who is your favorite Peter Pan character? Comment & share –here on this post OR on your social media, use the hashtag, #SPDustgiveaway and you will be entered twice!

                        We will monitor this post on Twitter, Instagram, and here.

                        Winners announced FRIDAY on an IG live with Kara! Good luck! Continue reading

                        The Querying Show: Final Episode

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                        Welcome to The Querying Show’s Final Episode (until later)!

                        For the last 3 months we’ve witnessed every juicy (and completely stagnant) detail of our SP Staff Member’s querying life in the SLUSH PILE!

                        (Check out our rules and reasons in our intro post here!)

                        So the question is, DID CR’s/Write_Or_Left achieve AGENT success? Or DID HE result with a querying and MS reboot?

                        Today is the final week of CR’s journey (at least online!).

                        First, as always, let’s check in our with brave querying fellow and see how things have finished. (Click here for Episode 1 & 2 & 3 & 4 & 5.) Continue reading

                        Author Interview: Astrid Scholte

                        Pen Friends ~ As a 2016 PitchWars mentee, I’m giddy to tell you that my fellow 2016 PW tribe member, and YA debut author, Astrid Scholte‘s incredible, fast-paced, and highly anticipated fantasy, FOUR DEAD QUEENS will be out in the world in February! Her story of perseverance and hard work is inspiring. Enjoy the interview!

                         

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                        SP: Hi Astrid! Thanks for joining us! Before we get into book stuff, we’d LOVE for you to share with our readers a bit of your inspiring (never-giving up) writing journey. Who are you and how long have you have been writing? 

                        AS: Thanks so much for having me! Ever since I was a kid, I wanted to be an author, writing my first “novel” at age 5. Another love of mine was drawing so I thought a picture book illustrator would be the dream job. Back then, I thought I could illustrate my own books. It wasn’t until much later that I found out most authors don’t also illustrate their work.

                        While my passion for writing was there from a young age, I pursued a career in 3D animation and visual effects as I also had a love for the magic of movie making. I studied 3D animation at university and have worked (and still do!) in the film, TV and animation industry for the past 10+ years. Working in film production is a taxing job, with long hours, so my writing took a back-seat for a few years. It wasn’t until 2012 that I finally finished a novel. It was a YA paranormal romance and I thought for sure it would get published!  Continue reading

                        The Querying Show, Episode 3. Gently Rip Apart His Query, Please.

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                        Welcome to The Querying Show’s Third Episode!

                        For the next six months you will witness every juicy (or completely stagnant) detail of our SP Staff Member’s querying life in the SLUSH PILE!

                        (Check out our rules and reasons in our intro post here!)

                        Will CR’s/Write_Or_Left achieve AGENT success? Or will it result with a querying and MS reboot? Dying to know? Follow us to see how Write_Or_Left ‘s querying journey will end up!

                        ***Please forgive our late post. Autumn colds took over last week! 

                        SO…..Today is the 3rd week of CR’s journey. Today we will do something a bit different. We will SHOW YOU CR’S QUERY and ask YOU for feedback!

                        But first, let’s check in our with brave querying fellow and see how things are progressing. (Click below for Episode 1 & 2.) Continue reading

                        Author Interview: Brittany Fichter

                        Pen Friends ~ Get ready for a long string of author interviews this month! We just love learning from other authors and hearing their stories from dreams to publication. We hope you do too!

                        Today’s interview is fantasy and fairytale-inspired author, Brittany Fichter! If you love fairytale spin-offs and heart throbbing arcs and characters, you have a list of books to choose from–See below for Brittany’s book pics!

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                        SP: Hi Brittany! Thanks for joining us. First, please tell us a bit of who are you and how long have you have been writing?

                         

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                        Book Review: The Story Peddler by Lindsay A. Franklin

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                        Title: The Story Peddler, The Weaver Trilogy Book One

                        Author: Lindsay A. Franklin

                        Review by: Jennifer Lindsay

                        Blurb: Tanwen doesn’t just tell stories—she weaves them into crystallized sculptures that sell for more than a few bits. But the only way to escape the control of her cruel mentor and claw her way from poverty is to set her sights on something grander: becoming Royal Storyteller to the king.

                        During her final story peddling tour, a tale of treason spills from her hands, threatening the king himself. Tanwen goes from peddler to prey as the king’s guard hunts her down . . . and they’re not known for their mercy. As Tanwen flees for her life, she unearths long-buried secrets and discovers she’s not the only outlaw in the empire. There’s a rebel group of weavers . . . and they’re after her too.

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